Michael David DiFucci Posted: 2020-04-03 10:36:32

Michael David DiFucci

Obituary

Michael David DiFucci, of Lake in the Hills, IL passed away on March 31, 2020. He departed this life at home surrounded by his loving family after a courageous battle with cancer.

Michael was born on May 9, 1967 in Troy, New York to the late John and Diane (nee Writer) DiFucci. He was a kind and devoted husband and father who was well liked by everyone who met him. Michael could brighten any room with his amazing smile, charm, and sense of humor. He loved to spend time with his family and was an avid sports fan. His memory will be cherished by all those whose lives he touched, as he was simply a good person.

Michael is survived by his wife Sara (nee Graves) DiFucci, daughter Amanda, son Jake, and siblings, John DiFucci, Mary Kay Avellino, and Paul (Justina) DiFucci, and many nieces, nephews, and close cousins.

The family would like to express their gratitude to his oncology team at UofC who continued to fight with Michael to the end. A celebration of life will be planned at a later date. Donations in lieu of flowers may be made in Michael’s name to The Autism Community in Action (TACA) at https://tacanow.salsalabs.org/inhonorofmichaeldifucci

For further information please call the funeral home at 847-515-8772 or online condolences may be directed to www.defiorefuneral.com

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Lynn, Rick and Will Mizenko 2020-04-03 12:34:33

Dear Sara, Amanda and Jake, Our deepest sympathies are with you all...Michael was just such an awesome guy, and I am so grateful to be his cousin and have dear memories from our youth growing up in Upstate NY that I will always cherish. Lots of love to you all, Lynn, Rick and Will

Janice Passaretti Meyer and family 2020-04-03 12:46:39

To all: Our deepest condolences to everyone. Praying for your strength to cherish the happy memories and also to be thankful that Michael is no longer suffering. He has found his home back with mom, dad and those who have passed before him. May he Rest In Peace.

Tami Mcgivney 2020-04-03 12:47:10

Sara, Amanda and Jake and all of the Difucci family, Our deepest sympathy in this difficult time. Prayers for you and your family. I will never forget Michael and his bright big smile! He was such a genuine person!! He will be forever missed! Love, Tami, John , Aidan and Dylan McGivney

Michelle Weldon 2020-04-03 13:16:46

Im so sorry for your loss May God carry your family through these times. ????

Catherine Deaton 2020-04-03 13:18:12

My condolences to your family.

Colleen (Jose) Kayser 2020-04-03 13:21:25

So terribly sorry for your profound loss. Mike was full of laughter. Sending prayers and strength to you all.

Bonnie Premo & Bob Colucci 2020-04-03 13:22:37

Sara, Amanda and Jake, Our hearts go out to you and your family and to Michael's brothers and sister during these sad days. We know you will miss his ready-smile, and all your wonderful days together, but we hope that, in time, these are the memories that will sustain you and keep Michael forever in your hearts and make him a part of your daily lives again. He was a wonderful husband, dad, brother and that will never change.

Stephanie and Ed McBride and family 2020-04-03 13:29:26

Our deepest condolences to Sara, Amanda, Jake, the entire DiFucci extended family, and all of Mike’s friends. The people you grow up with more than influence you - they shape who you become and become a part of who you are. I had the incredible privilege of having Fooch as a friend, a teammate, and classmate in Mechanicville. He had an infectious smile and sense of humor that made him such a presence wherever he was. He was an all around great guy and will be deeply missed.

Jodi (Lucas) delollo 2020-04-03 13:49:40

So very sorry, I remember Mike fondly from school here in New York. Thoughts are with his family.

Michael and Linda greenberg 2020-04-03 13:57:01

Michael the most handsome kind loving neighbor anyone could wish for . We treasure every moment we had with you all for you are all so special to us. Wish we were closer to provide you all with love and support but know how deeply we are sorry and how much love to you all. Sarah never met such a strong woman and I know your love for your family will help. Amanda and Jake a big hug from your Michigan neighbors .

John cefferillo 2020-04-03 16:14:53

My condolences to the DiFucci family.

Dawn M Riccio 2020-04-03 16:47:42

Mary Kay and the entire DiFucci Family, my heart goes out to all of you. Michael was a genuinely terrific man. I am truly sorry for your loss. Mary Kay, please reach out whenever you want or need. I’m here.

Allison and Ed Majkowski 2020-04-03 17:56:10

Dear Sara, Jake, Amanda and Family, Our heartfelt prayers are being sent your way. We cannot imagine the pain your feeling. It has been such a long and traumatic experience. May the love and support of your family and friends comfort you! All our love, Allison, Ed and family

lorraine Mccleary 2020-04-03 18:10:18

Thoughts and Prayers are with you all Michael your at Peace Now Rest On.

Peg DeStefano 2020-04-03 18:11:25

I am so so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts go out to all of you.

Tom Lapka 2020-04-03 18:49:10

To my Neo buddy from U of C. Your suffering has ended. I pledge to spread the word about bladder cancer for the rest of my life in your honor. Until we meet again to compare notes. Love, Tom Lapka

Ann and Julie 2020-04-03 18:53:38

We are so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent to you and your family. ????????????????

Wendy (Burke) Smith 2020-04-03 18:57:36

Heartfelt sympathy to all of Mike’s family. He was a wonderful man and a good friend. I hope you find peace in this difficult time

Andrew B Thompson 2020-04-03 20:37:44

My Condolence to My Cousin Michael wife Sara and his daughter and son.Also for his sister Mary Kay and his two brothers John and Paul

Jackie Fanale 2020-04-03 20:57:11

I’m so sorry Sara and family for the loss of your beloved husband abs father. May God be with you at this most difficult time.

Theresa Kaspereen 2020-04-03 21:41:33

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. God Bless!

Theresa Cedillo 2020-04-03 22:14:53

My deepest condolences to you Sara, your family and Michael's family and friends. May he rest in peace and may you find consolation in the beautiful times you shared together xoxo

Mary Lee Stockwell 2020-04-04 09:32:15

Sara I was so sorry to hear about Michael’s passing. I’ll always remember the good times when we were growing up in Mechanicville. I loved him dearly. You and the Kids are in my prayers. Love You All ????????????????

Bob Lucas 2020-04-04 09:39:32

I can't believe it. So sorry. You guys are one of the greatest families I know and I'm so sorry.

Diane Richter Freibaum 2020-04-04 09:53:03

Dear Sara, Amanda and Jake- My condolences and deepest sympathy to you all. I am keeping you in my prayers. May His love surround you, protect you and grace you. With Love- Diane Freibaum and family

Kristina Kennedy - Babcock 2020-04-04 12:13:52

Sara - you know I’m thinking of you all. We will get together soon in our Happy Place Disney and celebrate Michael! Love you guys. Xoxo

Nicole Wise & Family 2020-04-04 16:11:32

Rip Michael.

Stephanie Land 2020-04-04 21:56:51

Dear Sara, Amanda, Jake,& extended family, I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and bring you peace and comfort. Sending Love and prayers for you all. ????

Dina Frigo 2020-04-04 22:32:01

Sending our deepest condolences and prayers for peace, comfort, and healing. May God bless you all and keep you in His care. Numbers 6:24-26 Rest In Peace Michael. Dina Frigo & family

Donna Rogers. 2020-04-04 23:44:40

I am so sorry for your loss Mary Kay may your brother rest in peace-♡♡♡♡

Christina Livolsi 2020-04-05 10:23:29

Dear Sara, I cannot express how deeply sad I am for you, Amanda and Jake. Michael was truly one of the nicest people I have ever met. We don't understand why things happen, but can only hope with time, some sense of reasoning prevails for something this devestating. My sincere sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love always, Christina

Irene (McBride) and Joe Zecca & Family 2020-04-06 09:05:58

To Sara, Amanda & Jake, John, Mary Kay, Paul & Families, Sending our Love, Thoughts & Prayers. There was never a time I was in Mike's company that he didn't make me laugh. He was full of positive energy that always made his classmates smile. Such a genuinely nice guy. Please know we share in your sorrow during this most difficult time.

Irene (McBride) and Joe Zecca & Family 2020-04-06 09:14:19

To Sara, Amanda & Jake, John, Mary Kay, Paul & Families, Sending our Love, Thoughts & Prayers. There was never a time I was in Mike's company that he didn't make me laugh. He was full of positive energy that always made his classmates smile. Such a genuinely nice guy. Please know we share in your sorrow during this most difficult time.

Ginny LaJuene 2020-04-06 14:48:44

Sara, I am so sorry that Michael is gone from your family and our larger family. Sending you, Amanda and Jake love and caring thoughts.

George and Liliana Gerondelis 2020-04-07 00:18:02

Our condolences to the Difucci Family and relatives. We are sorry for the death of your husband, Sara.

Regina Kane 2020-04-07 13:25:05

Sara, My deepest condolences on the loss of your husband. May your beautiful memories bring you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

Lisa (Krajewski) Giordano 2020-04-10 11:44:14

When I heard the news it was just too hard to believe. A life taken too soon. Mike was a classmate of mine at Mechanicville High School. There was never a dull moment when he was around. From his infectious smile to his joking personality, I always remember him as a truly happy person. May God Bless all of you during this difficult time.

Brian Hayner 2020-05-04 10:08:49

My deepest sympathy to Mike’s family. He was a very nice person that I went to school with. He was a lot of fun to be around and was always positive and just great to be around. Very sorry for your loss.

Peter Toth 2020-05-11 07:16:37

Sara, I am shocked to say the least at Michael's passing. He was a great friend to all. Cherish the memories you have with him and let them envelope you in the comfort he would surely want to give to you. With Love and Prayers. Pete

David Gould 2020-05-27 15:38:40

My deepest condolences to Sara, Amanda, & Jake. I worked with Mike at Sears for a number of years. His warmth and sense of humor drew people to him. Drew me to him. We talked about our kids... he loved you both so much it brought him to tears at least once. He was a good friend to me... telling me gently that I needed to "take a vacation"... and he was right... multiple times :). I will miss him dearly.

Barbara Allen 2021-02-22 10:28:41

Dear Sara, Today I found out a friend and colleague passed away. My heart hurts for you and your family. Mike was an amazing man. He loved you and the children so much. I met him when I was moved to his floor at Sears/Kmart. He was so friendly and genuine. He talked about Amanda. He was so proud of her. When she sang in Beauty and the Beast he was so amazed that she could not order food in a restaurant but can get up in front of an audience and sing like an angel. He showed me the video. She was awesome. He was also proud of Jake and how well he was doing. And you were the love of his life. He told me how he met you and what really amazed me is he remembered exactly what you were wearing. He said "It was love at first sight." He told me you were married at Disney. And you would go almost every year. He helped me with pointers on my trip to Disney with my husband and his sisters' 5 kids. Disney would not have been as good without his suggestions. I talked to Mike a few times on LinkedIn but I did not go on LinkedIn in a few years. Since so many people were let go from Sears (including myself) I wanted to contact some old friends. Mike is one but I could not find him. Then I google Mike and was shocked. A friend told me he had stomach cancer but had surgery and was getting better. He also said Mike did not want anyone to know. He never liked attention. I am so sorry for your loss but I hope it brings you pleasure to know how much you husband loved you and his children. God bless you and your family. And May God bless Mike I know he is in Heaven.