Raymond F. Wolski,89, of Huntley, died peacefully, November 5, 2022, with his family by his side.
Raymond was born December 3, 1932, the son of Joseph and Mae Wolski. On June 6, 1959, he married Ann J. Bossany. The couple was married for 63 years. Ray served in the United States Army, the Korean War as a radio operator. He worked at A1 Tool and die and rose the ranks within the company until his retirement. After retirement he volunteered at Alexian Brothers Hospital and that turned into a part time job as a surgical room assistant. He was always caring for others. He was always hard working and a good provider for his family. He was a meticulous bookkeeper and organizer; he was frugal, and he was recycling everything before we knew what recycling was. Ray loved polka music and dancing with his wife. He was a proud Knight of Columbus for 60 years and was known to have a sweet tooth. He will be remembered as a peacemaker, loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend and will be missed by all who knew him
He is survived by his children, Raymond J. Wolski, William G.(Claudia) Wolski, Mary Ann (Randy Smoda) Wolski, and Shirley (Mike) Allen, by his grandchildren, William (Gosia-fiancé ),Gabriella (Adam), Stephanie (Geno) Michelle (Kyle), Aaron, Allison, and Nicholas, by his great grandchildren, Dominic, Luca, and, Lucas and Lorelei.
Ray was preceded in death by his parents, his brother, Jerome (Joan) Wolski and by his loving bride, Ann who died just 4 months ago.
A visitation will be held on Wednesday, November 9, 2022, from 4-7pm at DeFiore Funeral Home-10763 Dundee Road, Huntley. A second visitation will be held on Thursday at St. Mary Church 9am-until the time of the 10am Mass. All at St. Mary Church 10307 Dundee Road, Huntley. The burial will be at Resurrection Cemetery in Justice, Illinois.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to the Alzheimer’s Association.
For further information please contact the funeral home at 847-515-8772 or online condolences may be directed to www.defiorefuneral.com
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As the oldest cousin of the family passes, I am saddened for the loss and the pain his family will suffer in missing him. However, I’m so happy to know that he is now joined with his wife and so many others who have gone faithfully before us. Ray was most certainly a devout and faithful man. I grew up calling him Uncle Ray, and continue to refer to him as uncle versus cousin, because I always looked up to and respected him. My faith is stronger because of his witness with his life and how he lived it. I love you Uncle Ray, and I will miss you and Auntie Ann, until the day comes when Christ will reunite us.
I only knew Ray for a short time but through his daughter, Shirley, I learned a lot about him, his love for his wife Ann and all the kids and grandkids. I know how sad Alzheimer's is and will pray for Ray and all the family and for an end to this evil disease. Ray and Ann will happily spend their time with the risen Lord in heaven!!
So sorry for your loss. My memories of your parents will always be cherished. They were kind hearted and always treated me like part of the family. They will be missed. Their love for each other continues.
Our deepest sympathy to MaryAnn, Randy and family. Our prayers are with you. Love you.
The picture that you posted of “Uncle Ray” brought back memories of a wonderful past. Thank you Raymie, Mary Ann, and Shirley. I remember visiting your family home often as a child - all good memories. My sympathy to your family on the losses that you have endured this year. I remember Ann’s beautiful smile and Ray’s laugh most of all.
Dear Mary Ann & Family, I am so sorry for your loss could not believe this. After 63 years Ray did not want to be away from your mom. Please know how much my heart hurts for all of you. The Lord has always given you the strength to endure & will again. God Bless..
My memories of both your parents bring to mind big smiles, good cooking, love of their Dobermans and the door flung wide open with a great big welcome when we would come to visit. I am sorry for the loss of both your parents. You are all being carried in our hearts and prayers. Peace
As long time friends of the family, the loss of two good friends in such a short time is hard, but I'm sure much harder for all of you who have lost both parents so close together. But, I can't help but feel good about all the memories: Ray and my dad laughing and talking work stories, Ann as an wonderful hostess and excellent baker, and both with lots of smiles, laughter and hugs for whenever we visited. I have memories of our families getting together as kids, your parents and mine dressed up for those work parties, visits to the farm after we moved, and the smile the names "Ray and Ann" always brought to my face. Their positivity and kindness will always live in my heart and their faith filled life one to remember. My sympathies to your entire family as you grieve this loss.