Elmer Hook Posted: 2023-03-17 15:33:14

Elmer Hook


Elmer R. Hook, 83, of Huntley, formerly of Huntington, Indiana and Hanover Park, died peacefully on March 16, 2023.
Elmer was born in Nashville, Arkansas on December 2, 1939. After meeting at work, Elmer married Joyce Grafstrom on July 21, 1962, and together the couple raised their daughter, Allison.
Elmer enjoyed working with his hands and was exceptionally skilled. He crafted many RC sailboats, and even built his own telescope. He was an avid gardener and enjoyed growing vegetables. Elmer especially enjoyed being on the water and was a proud member of the Northwest Sailing Association. He was a soft-spoken and caring man who wanted the best for everyone. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him.
Elmer is survived by his beloved wife of 60 years, Joyce Hook, his daughter, Allison (Ron) Wehrs, and his granddaughters, Amy (fiancé Alex Corcoran) Wehrs, and Kara (fiancé Adam Zurawski) Wehrs.
He was preceded in death by his parents, and his sister, Joyce (Don) Philippi.
Services for Elmer are private at DeFiore Funeral Home. His family is planning a Celebration of Life to be held at a later date.
For further information, please contact the DeFiore Funeral Home, 847-515-8772 or online condolences may be left at www.defiorefuneral.com

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Margaret Modzelewski 2023-03-18 12:29:29

Enough cannot be said about all of the memories I'll cherish of Elmer, he was like a second father to me, after growing up with Allison, since 4th grade. My thoughts & prayers are with Joyce, Allison & her family. God Bless

Beth Bassitt Lasky 2023-03-18 15:30:07

My sympathies to Mrs. Hook, Allison and the rest of the family. Such great memories of our families growing up on the block. May God bless and strengthen you during this time.

Uta 2023-03-18 15:59:36

Dear Joyce, I just want to send sincere condolences from Kris and I. The funeral home did a great job of explaining what he liked, etc. condolences also to the rest of the family. I’m really glad that you moved back up north to be close to Allison and Ron. Bless you, and please give me a call when you feel up to it. Love, UTA, and Kris ❤️

Deborah Hartwig 2023-03-20 19:39:45

You all have our deepest sympathies and unwavering support. Wishing you peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow. Our hearts go out to you all at this difficult time. Wishing you all the best and know you have our full support in every moment. Deborah Hartwig Family

Paula Bucar 2023-03-21 14:59:26

Rich and I are thinking of you at this time of sorrow Our deepest condolences to all.