Rosemary Elizabeth “Rose” Bolding, 30, of DeKalb and formerly of Sleepy Hollow, passed away from injuries sustained in an automobile accident on August 19,2026 in Grundy county IL.
Rose was born March 17, 1996, the beloved daughter of Neil and Carol (Fleck) Bolding. She graduated from Dundee-Crown High School and went on to train as an EMT, a calling that perfectly reflected who Rose was at heart. Caring for and helping others was not simply her profession—it was an important part of her life and the person she was. In the summer of 2016 she travelled to Arusha in Tanzania to help at the Seeway Nursery. Working at the school was a life affirming experience. Rose was in touch with them to this day offering support.
Rose was strong, passionate, and a beautiful free spirit with a great sense of humor. She lived with intensity, loved fiercely, and gave generously of herself to others. Through her work as an EMT, her friendships, and the many connections she made throughout her life, Rose touched more lives than she could have ever known. Her coworkers and friends held a special place in her heart, and the impact she made on those around her will not be forgotten.
Above all, Rose was a devoted daughter and a loving dog mom to her pride and joy, Orange. The bond they shared brought her tremendous happiness. Rose's beautiful spirit, compassionate heart, and fierce love for those she cared about will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. She is free from struggles, pains and worries. Rose is soaring and flying free.
Rose is survived by her parents, Neil and Carol Bolding; her English family, including her grandmother, Patricia Bolding; her aunt, Jacqueline (John) Shields, and their children, Bethany and Eleanor; her US family, aunts and uncles Linda (Augie) DePasquale and Julie (Rich) Heidank; and her cousins, Michelle, John (Maggie), Ryan (Erica), Laura and Carter.
Rose’s identity also included her biological siblings Breanne Lee, Gairet Lee (Taylor Brown) and Eric Lee. Jeff Rothman (Ashley) and Erica Lopez (Ross) and 11 nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandparents, William and Virginia Fleck and by her friends, Emily and Eric.
Visitation will be held on Saturday, September 5, 2026, from 1:00 p.m. until 5:00 p.m., with a service at the conclusion of the visitation all at DeFiore Funeral Home, 10763 Dundee Road, Huntley.
Memorial donations may be made in Rose's honor to animal shelters that need our help so much.
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Neil and Carol, may the beautiful memories and love you shared with Rosemary bring you comfort and strength in the days ahead. Please know that we are holding you both close in our hearts and sending you our deepest condolences, love, and prayers during this heartbreaking time. ❤️
My heart breaks at the loss of such a beautiful and beloved young woman. My prayers and love to Neil and Carol.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Neil and Carol, we are so deeply saddened by the tragic loss of Rose. Rose was extraordinary. She did so much in her life, and made the world a better place. We wish you grace, peace, and healing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Carol and Neil, We are saddened to hear about the loss of your amazing daughter Rose. All our prayers to you both and your family.
I was heartbroken to hear about the tragic loss of your amazing daughter. My sincere condolences to the whole family.
So sorry for your loss my friend. Be strong through this very difficult time.
Carol and Neil, we are so sorry for your loss. Our sincere condolences are with you and your family.
On behalf of everyone at Seeway Tanzania, we send you our condolences and want you to know how much an impact Rose had during her time there. How much she laughed, exuded love and joy, and helped in so many areas especially at Seeway Nursery, and in turn she was loved back unconditionally by our children and teenagers. We are all praying for you Neil and Carol, and remembering Rose with much gratitude that we had that precious time with her. ❤️
Neil and Carol, I am sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts for you and your family.
Carol and Neil, I cannot imagine buring my child. My grief for both of you is overwhelming. She certainly was a beautiful girl. My heart felt wishes and prayers are with you. Keep faith it will help you through this horrible time. The whole bocce group are greiving with you. Love, Lynne
We don't have the words to truly express the sadness we feel for you and your wife Carol. Celebrate the wonderful life you built for your daughter and watching her fulfill her dreams as a beautiful young Woman. No one can ever prepare for such tragedy. We trust your faith and strength will guide you during these difficult times. Our prayers and condolences go out to you and your entire family.
Carol and Neil, Jackie and I are so very sorry to her about the loss of your lovely and beautiful daughter Rose. Please except our sincere condolences and prayers for you and your families.
We are so incredibly sorry for your loss, prayers 🙏 for you and your family...
So sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. Cherish your memories.
What heartbreaking news, sending our deepfelt thoughts and prayers.
I worked with Rose at ATEC. She was always so bright and charming, and although we never worked closely together, I always was so happy to greet her and talk to her. I was deeply saddened to hear of her passing; I know that she recently came back to ATEC after a leave of absence, and I was looking forward to strengthening our friendship. I am so sorry for her family and friends, and my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
We are so sorry to hear of the devastating loss of your beautiful Rose. She sounds like such an amazing person whose impact on the world will never be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I was deeply saddened to hear of Rose’s passing. She was truly such a bright light in this world. I had the privilege of watching her journey through so many different phases of life, and through it all, she remained someone who gave so much of herself to the people around her, often putting the needs of others before her own. Rose was incredibly selfless and cared so deeply and fiercely for everyone she loved. She spoke so highly of the life you provided her, and it was clear just how much love she had for her family and friends. She accomplished so much throughout her life and made the world a better place simply by being in it. Her kindness, compassion, and love will continue to live on through the many lives she touched. She truly left a lasting impact on this world and on everyone fortunate enough to have known her. Wishing you and your family grace, peace, and healing during this incredibly difficult time. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers💖
Neil and Carol you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. If we can help in any way please let us know🩷💙🙏
Rose was such a beautiful soul and I am honored to have met her and spend some time together
We are so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. There are simply no words for a loss like this. Reading about Rose, it is so clear what a bright and beautiful light she brought to this life and how deeply she is loved. Thank you for sharing a glimpse of the remarkable person she was. Please know that you and your family are in our hearts, and we are holding you especially close in our thoughts as you face this devastating loss.
There are no words to express my sorrow that this angel’s life was taken when she was so vibrant and young. 🌺🦋💕
The loss of Rose will leave an unfillable hole in this world. She leaves behind the most vivid of memories and conversations. Her personality shined through in every social occasion from homeroom in high school to parties in our adult life. The world is a bit dimmer without her.
So sorry to hear of your daughter’s passing. Praying for you and Carol.
Our thoughts and deepest condolences are with you both during this devastating time. May the memory of Rose be a blessing.
We are so sorry. The death of Rosemary is an unimaginable loss. And there are really no words that can make it right.
So sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine your grief. What a beautiful young woman.
Our most heartfelt condolences on your loss. It’s truly heartbreaking what you both must be feeling. Take comfort in knowing that you raised a truly loving and wonderful daughter in Rose. We know she will be greatly missed by all those she met. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both at this time.